This year has been about serving you, committed birth and postpartum doulas, in a different way. I’ve written fewer blogs, but posts on higher impact topics like essential oils and universal certification. When I’m not blogging, it’s because I’m writing something else. This year alone I’ve had two book chapters published, one podcast, three videos, developed four new continuing education sessions, and one peer-reviewed journal article, all relevant to what YOU do. I also wrote a 350 page memoir, but that was a personal project! Several of these resources are FREE. I’m committed to improving our profession and your experience of being a doula.
Round The Circle: Advice for New Doulas includes a chapter on the results of my research on Doulaing Friends and Family Members. Basically, it turns out well when what the laboring person expected to happen and what really happened are close to one another. If the birth or postpartum doesn’t turn out as expected, the relationship between the doula and friend or family member will change dramatically, and usually not for the good. Want more? [Link to Amazon]
Doulas and Intimate Labor is an academic book published this month by Demeter Press. Edited by Andrea Castaneva and Julie Johnson Searcy, my chapter covers my scholarly work on Doulas as Facilitators of Transformation and Grief. As doulas we are present as the woman becomes a mother and must surrender her old self in order to become her new self (this research was done on cisgendered women). Change implies grief, which is one of the unacknowledged journeys of postpartum. In addition, this chapter covers doula’s experiences when the partner dies during pregnancy, and when the baby dies before birth (fetal demise), at birth, or in the immediate postpartum period. I’ve also turned this topic into a successful continuing education session. [Link to Amazon]
Why Do People Attend Doula Trainings? is an original solo research project. I collected data in 2010 and 2014, asking over 400 people why they were taking a doula training (before the workshop). Surprisingly, many people taking a training are not there to become doulas, but because they want a general education about birth! This topic is also a successful continuing education session. The full article is forthcoming in a 2016 issue of the Journal of Perinatal Education!
Sexuality and Birth Video and Podcast – In October, I had the opportunity to be interviewed by Penny Simkin on Sexuality, Birth and Postpartum. This eight minute video is going through approval to be recommended by Lamaze as a resource for parents and professionals. I’m thrilled that this free video, which gets at the sexual and emotional needs of people becoming parents, primarily connection and pleasure. [Sexuality After Childbirth Youtube video]
Amy Neuhadel, of The Cord in Sweden, also interviewed me on sexuality and birth. We’ve gotten great feedback on how helpful this TEN minute interview has been for parents and for educators. [Intimacy and Pleasure In Your Birthing Year Link]
Giving Fathers What They Really Need In Birth – This YouTube interview conducted by Penny Simkin gave me the opportunity to summarize the research on men and fathers (male cisgendered perspective). You’ve loved my conference sessions on this topic, so here’s a short resource you can use as a discussion starter in your classes, small groups, or just for yourself! [The Role of Fathers YouTube video link]
Giving Birth, the birth video that I executive produced with director Suzanne Arms (it really is her baby) is now finally available on Amazon Instant Video! It took me a year, but its now up! Suzanne Arms sells it on DVD through her site.
Northwest Doula Conference presentation covering The Top Eight Challenges of the Birth and Postpartum Doula Professions. After two hours of listening to me and what I think, I got a standing ovation. And that’s after getting people to commit to making behavior changes to meet those challenges, not just passively listen and go on their way! I had multiple requests to turn this address into a podcast, but I’d really love to give it again live at another conference and record that. Anyone interested?
New workshop content – this year I wrote several new sessions for continuing education. Hospital Based Doulas: What’s The Difference? is based on multiple waves of research interviews with this HB doulas around the United States; Doulas as Facilitators of Transformation and Grief focuses on how to be this significant person in our client’s lives, as they shift into parenthood, face the possibility of loss, and experience grief as part of the transition into a different phase of adult life. It also gives us space to breathe as we recognize our shared responsibility for the emotional well being of our selves and each other as doing doula work changes who we are as human beings.
Communication Skills for Birth Professionals is a skill building workshop where you learn by doing – you leave with skills you didn’t have when you walked in the door! It is available in two, three, and four hour formats. Two hours focuses on listening; the third hour focuses on preparing yourself to communicate successfully; and the fourth hour adds conflict resolution skills focusing on typical situations that birth and postpartum doulas face. These sessions are not formulas, telling you what to say. They teach you how to think about a situation, so you can be authentically yourself in all of your encounters.
PTSD: How It Affects Childbirth And How To Improve Your Outcomes is the latest addition to my catalogue, which came my way because of requests from physicians and nurse groups. Yay! What most doctors and nurses don’t learn in school is how to show they care. They don’t learn the physical and emotional skills that communicate their internal feeling of caring for a patient on a personal level. In fact, for many professionals their educational experience is to have the emotional center pummeled away in order to follow good practices in medical care. The ‘cure’ for preventing childbirth to make existing PTSD worse is authentic human connection.
If that isn’t enough for you, I also wrote a 350 page memoir of the experience of taking care of my terminally ill mother, who was misdiagnosed for the first half of her illness. Tentatively titled The Summer of Mimi, I hope to complete the second and third drafts in 2016. This was a personal goal of mine, but as I can’t stop being a doula all over my life, its has juice in it for all doulas too.
2016 promises more content and more projects!
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